Sunday, June 1, 2014
Thursday, May 29, 2014
EASY IDEAS FOR AN ENJOYABLE CONVERSATION
- Finding the other person's true interests and desires.
- Sharing his/her consciousness....being there for some time...in the shade of the "other consciousness".
- Addressing his/her concerns/fears/desires...even if you are disinterested in these things...even if you dislike all these...
- Moving from specific to general...personal to local...social to global.
- What matters is how much you care for the relationship...with yourself...with the other and with the conversation itself.
Also on the same page: INSIGHTS IN CONVERSATION
Some more thoughts on CONVERSATIONS
" Nobody
listens with the intent of listening, but with the intent of plugging
their own story. A conversation which feels like a relay race is a total
turn off. A conversation needs to flow like two rivers, intermingling
with each other, sharing experiences, co-creating meaning in doing so.
That is why I don’t enjoy being a part of a conversation, unless I am
really interested in what you have to say, coz am all ears y’know. And I
can’t pour my thoughts out unless I know what I say matters. If you
can’t improve the silence then STFU, is my mantra." ....
Words from "toblog-with love"
Some more from GOOGLE SEARCH:
TO BE CONTINUED...
Friday, May 23, 2014
Thursday, May 8, 2014
EC FLUENCY
Fluency in English or any other language is not just about asking or answering questions...it's more than that. In fact fluency is actually sustaining a speech, conversation, discussion, interview, a paragraph, an essay etc. It is making a combination of sentences to give opinions, views, to argue, to express, to voice our thoughts etc. So unless we have a wide range of sentences at our command plus a good vocabulary plus a nice awareness of things happening around fluency will not come easily to us. Given below is the fluency chart to give us a summary of all the different types of sentences, of the most basic type, essential in any conversation.
FLUENCY CHART
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Be a Sachin Tendulkar of English Communication(EC)
One
of the reasons can be : He has a very wide range of shots. Another
reason can be: He can select the right shot for the right ball.
So there are two things that make Sachin one of the best batsmen: range of shots and the right shot.
So there are two things that make Sachin one of the best batsmen: range of shots and the right shot.
Now what do you think makes a person a good communicator in English?
He/she should have a wide range of sentences. Another reason is: He/she should be able to select the right sentence in a given context.
He/she should have a wide range of sentences. Another reason is: He/she should be able to select the right sentence in a given context.
1 PRESENT STATE (am/is/are)
|
2 PAST STATE (was/were)
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3 FUTURE STATE (will be)
|
4 PRESENT STATE + TIME PERIOD (have/has
been)
|
5 PRESENT POSSESSION (have)
|
6 PAST POSSESSION (had)
|
7 FUTURE POSSESSION (will
have)
|
8 PRESENT REALITY (There
is)
|
9 PAST REALITY (There
was)
|
10 FUTURE REALITY (There
will be)
|
11 PRESENT HABITS (I read
it daily)
|
12 PRESENT ATTITUDES (I like
reading)
|
13 PRESENT LIVE ACTIONS
(I
am reading it now)
|
14 FUTURE ACTIONS IN PRESENT
(I am reading it later)
|
15 PAST ACTIONS IN PRESENT (I have
read it)
|
16 PRESENT LIVE ACTIONS
+ TIME PERIOD (I have been reading it for an hour)
|
17 PAST ACTIONS IN
PAST
(I
read it today)
|
18 LIVE ACTIONS IN PAST
(I
was reading it today)
|
19 FUTURE ACTIONS IN FUTURE
(I
will read it today)
|
20 LIVE ACTIONS IN FUTURE
(I
will be reading it today)
|
21 PASSIVE (HABITS
and ATTITUDES)
(It
is read / liked by us)
|
22 PASSIVE(PRESENT LIVE and FUTURE ACTIONS)
(It
is being taught now / tomorrow)
|
23 PASSIVE(PAST
ACTIONS IN PRESENT) (It has been taught)
|
24 PASSIVE (PAST
ACTIONS IN PAST)
(It
was taught yesterday)
|
25 PASSIVE (LIVE
ACTIONS IN PAST)
(It
was being taught yesterday)
|
26 PASSIVE (FUTURE
ACTIONS IN FUTURE)
(It
will be taught)
|
27 CAN (I can do it)
|
28 COULD (I could
do it)
|
29 WILL / SHALL (I shall
do it)
|
30 WOULD (I would
do it)
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31 USED TO (I used
to do it)
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32 HAVE TO (I have
to do it)
|
33 NEED TO
(I need to do it
|
34 OUGHT TO (I ought
to do it)
|
35 MAY (I may do it)
|
36 MIGHT (I might
do it)
|
37 MUST (I must
do it)
|
38 SHOULD (I should
do it)
|
39 I will have done
it by today.
|
40 It has been a
long class.
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Tuesday, May 6, 2014
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